Orru Kozhikoden Romance

In search of Romance 

Promiscuity is inevitable for the Gay Man in India. I say this because i know it, I am not ashamed to admit it, i do not say this applies to everyone but it is largely true. To give you an idea of what i am talking about lets just take a random statistic. All stats are based on this popular Gay Dating Site abbreviated "PR"

There are almost 6000 gay users on that site registered from Kerala, almost 7000 from just Bangalore, almost 13000 from Delhi and almost 9000 from Mumbai. Since i focus more on my home state let me bring you back to Kerala. On any given day almost 300 people are online. On an average we chat with almost 5 profiles in a day (not necessarily) In a month we could easily meet at least 3 new people from the site. Now i am 27 years old and have been active on the site since i was 18 and by that count i have roughly met almost 396 guys through the site. Now i regard myself to be average when it comes to hunting, I am neither too choosy not too slutly but i definitely do not agree that 396 is the total #skore (pun on the condom brand intended).
The truth is the chances of meeting someone is ever present. May be in a crowded train compartment or standing at a bus stop, taking a leak at a public urinal or just by going to the hospital. I could go on about the weirdest places where i have met guys but that's not my point. Its not necessary that we go to bed with all the people we meet but my point is that the number of people a normal guy meets in real life could easily double the number i previously mentioned.

Sexual encounters whether they are online or in the real world all follow a basic pattern. Online it starts with a "Any Face Pics" message most guys just ctrl+c this message and keep pasting it to everyone online, and if you get lucky this leads to sex. Sex is usually for the heat of the moment A Top guy wants a nice ass and a Bottom guy needs a great cock, they satisfy each other end of story. There is nothing about chemistry here, like they say a hole needs a pole. Real life encounters although they are a bit more entertaining also follow the same fuck and forget style. They usually start with a "nootam" the carefull meeting of the eyes slowly advancing towards each other and they finally after sex end with the "Vaanam" the burst of cum signalling the end of sex. I always preferred and believed this to be the only way till i met this friend of mine called "Mr P"

Kozhikode 2010

Kozhikode is by far the most beautiful city in Kerala and i will always have this soft corner for CLT because that's where i met Mr P for the first time. It was the monsoon in kerala and nights were often rainy and that made going out very difficult but i arrived on a rather pleasant cool windy day in Kozhikode, after spending the day time cruising this mall which is the popular hotspot for gays, and going out for lunch in this even more famous restaurant i though i was done for the day and i just though of going to the beach and calling it a night. But then i remembered my gay-research i had googled all the popular gay meeting places in kozhikode before coming there and i had a huge list at my disposal.

I first started with the all famous Mananchira Square, this park situated right in the center of Calicut, this place was full of guys and went i ventured towards the dark and bushy parts of the park, judging by the suspicious and wandering eyes i could see this place was full of gays just as promised. But i was somehow put off by all the crowd, i felt there were too many watchful eyes and i didn't really find any of the guys interesting, so i moved on to the next gay hotspot on my list.

Crown theater as promised was this forgotten place where gays hung out because it was safe, they only played those movies that no one wanted to watch and hence this ensured low crowds and the proximity to Mananchira Square ensured adequate gay crowd, the movie started and i was seated in the last row next to this old guy who was hell bent on sucking me off, i protested and moved into the adjacent seat, now in theaters like this when someone gets off a chair it is a good opportunity to turn back and look at them that's when i first saw Mr P, he was seated 3 rows in front of me in the central aisle of seats. I instantly got up and sat in the seat beside him, he was this fair guy with long hair perfect face i would say with a cute innocence and a smile that caught my eye in the dark, like magnet my hand went on to his thigh and his on mine, we sat that way and waited till it was interval time that's when i properly saw him in the light, he was spectacularly cute and i must admit for the first time in my life that although my dick was aroused i felt a new kind of feeling you could call it nervousness, my heart was racing and i could almost hear its pounding, I have never felt like that before but i somehow got the guts to talk and asked him point blank what was his role in bed, he was shocked by my question but answered and we spoke for a few more minutes, i suggested we continue the conversation in my room, i was a traveler and i had taken a hotel room which was in walkable distance, and that's when it started raining, we made our way out of the theater and managed to take shelter under the sun-shade of a shop. my body was trembling because it was windy and chilly and i felt the pressing need to kiss him, i controlled myself and we kept going short distances and stopping to take cover from the rain till we reached my hotel, we were both soaking wet when we reached my room.

Usually i instantly attack my prey but with this guy there was something different we gently hugged each other and our lips met as if they were drawn to each other instantly. I don't remember how long we might have kissed but that was the longest kiss ever, mostly i don't like long kisses but i don't know ....all my charts and signals were going haywire that day i loved the way he would kiss me back and i didn't want it to stop, We obvious stopped once in a while to catch a breath, heheh.

We undressed completely and caressed and explored each others bodies and sucked each other off almost as if sucking the other gave us pleasure. Who says perfection is unattainable, that night everything was perfect. We came out of the room almost 2 hours later and i walked him to his bus stop. The next day i didn't need any cruising spots, i didn't need to meet anyone else i was waiting all day for him we met, mated and went for a walk on the beach, somehow in that dark poorly lit beach as we spoke about each other i connected on a very different level with this guy. if yesterday was the perfect sex this was the perfect romantic walk.

Now i am a pessimist, i don't feel two guys can live with each other and in a committed homosexual relationship forever in India, but i share this great bond with this guy till date, we are not a couple, although we love each other we are not committed, we fantasize about living with each other but we are both practical and usually abruptly end that fantasy by asking when the other guy is getting married, we have met several times after that day, Its been 5 years now and he has moved to Delhi but to this day a phone call from him  triggers memories of our romantic tryst in Kozhikode.

PS: Today Crown Theater is renovated turned into a multiplex and is no longer a Hotspot. Don't get beaten up because of me.